Gratitude…

The strength of those who hold you up, who love you even when you are not lovable.
The unfailing gift of friendship which sustains you , even in the darkest of nights.
It’s not always sunshine, those terrifying thunder storms roll through, with high winds and flashes of lightening which reveal the horror of your own humanity.
There is no turning back.
There is only in
and through.

I have always loved, not only this song, but this video as well. There is something about being an Artist that makes you feel like you are always exposed, and you have to learn to be Okay with it if your going to survive.
May you know Gratitude for those who are there for you when you need them.
Today I am grateful for you.

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  1. I’ve always loved this song to!

    what a beautiful post!

    Thanks Brandi, your visits mean a great deal.
    Namaste

  2. And we too are grateful for YOU, Lady Sorrow!

    Beautiful words shared here…

    There is no turning back.
    There is only in
    and through.

    You are so correct when you say that being an artist DOES make you feel like you are always exposed. I can only liken it to being a stage actor, and feeling as though I was an open nerve. And yet, in order for me to allow for creative energy…I had to be open, vulnerable and exposed.

    Like a blank canvas.

    Thank you for sharing this today, dear Lady.

    Love ya!

    ~Ron~
    the light of your humor and care is always a bright spot in my days,
    thank you from all of me for the difference you make with your kindness…
    (((HUG)))

  3. What a beautiful way to wake up – first with your comment on my blog and now with this song *bows* Thank you

    Sanity~ I am glad that I found you! Glad to be traveling in the same direction these days..
    Much gratitude and peace to you…

  4. I am grateful you brought back one of my favourite songs and videos to my life. This video makes me cry every time. I bought the CD just for that song. This is true joy and graciousness. Gratitude bare and beautiful and sacred. Thank you my friend!

    sacred sue~ It is a blessing to share the road with you, I enjoy my visits to your sacred space, as much as i enjoy your sojourns here. Thank you for you!

  5. No really…….thank YOU.

    ((((((( Sorrow )))))))))))

    It’s rare that one truly gets to know just how fully and completely they’ve touched the life of another.
    I hope you get an inkling of how huge that is for some of us….

    Mel~ Can you understand the heart that melts, the soul that smiles and often cringes at your wisdom? The moments i find forgotten truths, the caring I feel in your words?
    I am not feeling very lovable these days, but a note from you helps me realize that even today, I am okay.
    A most heartfelt Thanks for the sharing!…

  6. Alanis has always seemed especially… I don’t know, raw, or almost brutally honest. This video shows that so well – she does seem to go naked into the world, doesn’t she? There’s a sort of “hidden” song at the end of one of her songs…I’d have to look around to see which one I am talking about (i’m so bad with song names), but she talk about going to an ex’s house when he’s not there, and wanting to shower in his bathroom and take a nap in his bed…there is just something so immediate about it, and I think she has that rare gift for exposing those difficult things that are more universal than we usually admit to.

    I’ve been a very cranky and difficult person lately, so I really know what you mean about feeling unlovable. But…there are fireflies outside.

    Deb~ it’s the little things, isn’t it?or perhaps it’s where we place our power..
    thanks for the visit and for the sharing…

  7. My favorite vid of hers too…its such a message of transparency and living authentically. *smiles* Its a good song too…

    GreenWoman~ some how this doesn’t surprise me..smiles, you are a very Authentic soul! thanks for giving…it is so appreciated!

  8. Oh definitely loveable and loved, ma’am.

    And did I ever bother to tell you how proudly himself wears that wonderful t-shirt you took the time to find for him?

    I did ask him to don it the other day–something about toting that plastic box up and down the stairs a bazillion times made me think he MIGHT need a reminder of what’s truly important! LOL

    Loveable and loved!
    Cuz I said so! ;-)

    Thanks Mel, just working on getting around some OPO these days…family you know how that song goes..((((MUCH LOVE TO MEL))))

  9. Sorrow – I am grateful that you are a part of my life… very grateful and very blessed. xo

    “There is something about being an Artist that makes you feel like you are always exposed, and you have to learn to be Okay with it if your going to survive.” – I am not an artist but I still feel like this..

    MissR~ You are an artist, maybe not with paint or mud, but i have seen the artistry of your home, and that is in it’s self, an Art. Thank you so much for the warmth of your presence here!

  10. It comes full circle…we are all very grateful for you too!

    “There is something about being an Artist that makes you feel like you are always exposed, and you have to learn to be Okay with it if your going to survive.”

    As I have shared before from my former professor, favorite mentor, and now beloved friend:
    “to be an artist takes hard work, more hard work, and having thick skin!”

    Needless to say, she was right! Just last week I wanted to just stop…paint brushes and all. I can’t stop though..it fills me up! I think it is the same for you my dear creative friend.

    Sometimes we just need “to be still” for a spell. :)

    Sending you love, light, and peace of heart!
    Gypsy~ I thank you for your warmth and inspirations and creations, your gifts are bountiful. I am in that space we all land from time to time, and working my way through. Thick skin and all.

  11. Thank You for this… it made my heart smile…
    Enreal~Thank you for you…

  12. Thank you for sharing that with this virtual friend.

    Cate~ you are most welcome my friend, thank you for being the constant and the light!

  13. Beautiful video and song. Thank you Sorrow :)
    And your post too. The beautiful things you create and the deply thoughtful posts you write come from the whole of you, not just the nice part.
    the whole is loveable – and loved :)

    Mig~ Thank you for putting it so succinctly, both the lovable part and the most unlovable part thanks you!

  14. ((((sorrow)))) been quiet lately…but wanted to let you know i’m grateful for you too…

    lil xo

    Ahh Lil, so good to see you, (((HUG))) and sunshine smiles for you!

  15. what a beautiful post. it reminds me of a piece of poetry I’ve held close since I was a young woman …searching for myself and for love and for friends.

    “A friend is one to whom you can pour out the contents of your heart, chaff and grain alike. Knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away.”

    Grateful for you today, for helping me to remember.

    namaste

    Grace~ thank you for the sharing and the caring that always shine through in your words.You are a light…

  16. gratitude doesn’t even cover it my friend….. maybe love sums it up better for me. And I give you that unconditionally.
    bbx

    Sweet byrd~ Always the giver of the most precious and sacred of gifts!, thank you..a thousand times, thank you.

  17. Gratitude is the answer to nearly everything as far as I see it. This post reminds me that I need to make myself vulnerable with art again (but that is Oh So Scary). thank you for this. janexx

    Janexx~ i had a wise woman once tell me there is strength in vulnerability..It is a hard one for me to learn. Thank you so much for the visit!

  18. (((((((((( Sorrow ))))))))))))

    Just thinkin’ of ya….
    Cuz I can…..HA! :-)

    Mel~
    Thanks for the huge dopey smile on my face…
    so sweet!

  19. Much Love, Sis. I think of you often.
    Thanks for Alanis.
    xoxox

    Rainbow~
    i feel the presence of you love, always. thank you for being out there for me…

  20. Simply beautiful :)

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  22. Sorrow you are one special lady,thank you for being there for me,just wish I could give you a (((hug))) right now!Stay strong there are many that care about you!
    Love from Kathy and the girls


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